Kindness vs grabbing

Shh! We Have a Plan: questions to ask and activities to try

Four friends have a plan to catch a bird. Shh! The littlest one has a better idea. Shh! We Have a Plan is a gloriously funny book about kindness, listening and better ways than grabbing.

What age is Shh! We Have a Plan for?

Shh! We Have a Plan is best for ages 2–6.

Cover of Shh! We Have a Plan by Chris Haughton

Shh! We Have a Plan (Chris Haughton)

Age
2-6
Best for
Kindness, and better ways than grabbing
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How to use it

Whisper the “shh!”s and let your child shout the “go!”s. Ask why the littlest one's idea worked when the others' didn't.

Is this book right for your child?

Age
2–6 (nursery to Year 1)
What they'll enjoy
Four friends have a plan to catch a bird. Shh! The littlest one has a better idea. Shh! We Have a Plan is a gloriously funny book about kindness, listening and better ways than grabbing.
Helps with
Kindness, and better ways than grabbing
Buy or borrow?
Borrow it from the library first if you can. If your child asks for it again and again, it’s one worth owning, and the questions and activities on this page work best with the book open next to you.

What it helps with

Comprehension and discussion questions for Shh! We Have a Plan

Pick two or three, not all of them. “I don’t know” is a fine answer, and you can always come back to it another day.

  1. “What was the plan?”
  2. “What happened each time they tried?”
  3. “Before you turn the page: do you think it will work this time?”
  4. “How do you think the bird felt about the nets?”
  5. “What did the littlest one want to do?”
  6. “Why did his way work?”
  7. “Do you ever grab things you want?”
  8. “What could you do instead?”

For the full list of questions and more, download the PDF below.

5-minute activities to try together

Gentle hands

Put out some bird seed or crumbs and wait quietly to see who visits, like the littlest one.

Ready one, ready two… freeze!

Tiptoe across the room together, whispering “ready one… ready two… ready three…”, then shout “GO!” and freeze in a funny pose. Take turns being the one who counts.

Better plan

Act out the story with toys, and let your child invent a kinder plan for the friends.

Use it as a lesson plan

Learning goal

Children can listen to Shh! We Have a Plan, answer questions about it and give a reason for their ideas, and talk about kindness instead of grabbing.

A 20-minute session for ages 2–6 (nursery to Year 1), for a class, a small group or one child at home.

  1. Warm up (2 minutes). Show the cover and read the title. Ask: “What do you think this story will be about?”
  2. Read aloud (6 minutes). Read it all the way through. Tip: Whisper the “shh!”s and let your child shout the “go!”s. Ask why the littlest one's idea worked when the others' didn't.
  3. Talk about it (4 minutes). Pick two or three of the comprehension and discussion questions above. “What was the plan?” works well to start.
  4. Activity (6 minutes). Do Gentle hands. Put out some bird seed or crumbs and wait quietly to see who visits, like the littlest one. Children who finish early can try Ready one, ready two… freeze!.
  5. Wrap up (2 minutes). Ask each child for one thing they will remember from the story, and why.

Want to go further? The Shh! We Have a Plan activity sheet has these questions with space to answer, a drawing and writing page, and notes for the adult.

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By the Growing Wise team · Last reviewed: 19 October 2026

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